They say watch out for those quiet innocent acting ones… 😇
Not the loud outgoing ones… 🤪
Because those that are more on the quiet side tend to hold onto more internally and have judgment or opinions that will never be openly shared, and eventually their fake people pleasing act will ooze out. 🤷🏻♀️
Whereas the loud ones tend to be more direct and speak their truth, being authentically and unapologetically themselves, which tends to scare off or intimidate the former type, and so judgment comes about. 🤨
It’s no wonder those that I am closest with are more like myself and express themselves openly and authentically when something is on their mind rather than keeping it inside and then complaining or gossiping to others about me, and of course I’m the same with them! 🫂
Yet the times I have befriended the quieter ones, I’ve typically experienced something or another that has me no longer trust them and over time their fake ways becomes evident, which has both disappointed me and even hurt me on an ego level. 💔
I have a lot of love to give and love hard and passionately! ❤️🔥
It’s who I am deep in my soul level and probably why I do the work I do! ❤️🩹
AND if I do get crossed, I express myself vulnerably if the relationship means something to me.
Otherwise I release such people with love cuz I value myself & am grateful for those that are in my inner circle. 💖
It’s taken a lot of working on myself to get to this point as I am a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) and I used to get super hurt, although most people wouldn’t guess that about me! 😝
HSP is a new term I learned recently and immediately I knew YES… THAT’S ME! 😱
I always wondered why I feel things so intensely and more than others, or when I watch movies it’s as if I’m IN the movie and really FEEL what’s happening! 🤔
And why I can’t watch scary movies anymore! 🙃 lol
Some people seem to be born with nerves on the outside of their skin, according to the link below:
8 Ways to Tell if You’re a Highly Sensitive Person
And apparently there’s a book on this too! 🥰
So if you’re also a HSP, consider contacting me to do some subconscious reprogramming via 𝗣𝗦𝗬𝗖𝗛-𝗞® to be able to Live YOUR Life in the Face of ANY Circumstance! 💁🏻♀️🧠💖💫👇🏼