Coaching, Healer, Healing, Health Coach

Oh Judgment!👩🏻‍⚖️

We ALL judge others somehow or another, even if we’re doing our best to be consciously aware of it…

I know I judge those that judge! 😂

And as soon as I realize I’m judging the judgers, I laugh at myself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I definitely am much less of a judger than I used to be and do my best to remember that we each have our own perspectives and perceptions based on our past and memories, so of course we have differing opinions! 🎭

There is no such thing as RIGHT or WRONG or ONE TRUTH, unless it’s math. 🧮

Overall I believe we all get to have the choice of how we live our life! ⚖️
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When we let the opinion of others impact how we show up, then we’re not living our authentic self…

This was me for YEARS! 😳

Always concerned others were going to judge me for something or another… 😣

So I would resort to alcohol to be myself at social events. 🤦🏻‍♀️

Thankfully I am now my authentic self and feel FREE TO BE ME! 🦄

It took a STAGE 4 Glioblastoma (GBM4) brain tumor HEALing Journey to get here, which is one of the many reasons I would NEVER take back this REBIRTH experience! 🧠💖💫

⁣I know I get judged and as an empath, I FEEL who’s judging at times too! 🙃

When I step back, I realize it’s because most haven’t met someone that shares their cancer story so openly or is so passionately loud about certain topics such as prognoses…

But of course there are times when someone is judging me in the moment and I begin to FEEL the judgment from them, and my old EGO self gets triggered and then I’m trying to figure out WHY OH WHY?! 😒
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People will always judge and for the most part it’s because they’ve never had exposure to certain things in their lives and may be more closed minded to others’ way of thinking. 🤷🏻‍♀️

We ALL have a story that someone out there will just not understand, but as Brendan Burchard said it best:

Don’t let others’ judgments about you stop you from being your authentic self! 🦄🦸🏻‍♀️

We’re ALL unique in so many ways and if you feel the need to “fit in” all the time, you are losing your unique authentic self and inner power! 💪🏼

Consider being UNIQUELY YOU in ALL areas of your life and you’ll notice those that love you will still love you and those that judge you, never loved the REAL you to begin with, and that’s OK! 🥰

We’re not liked or loved by everyone and to live your life out loud by being your authentic self will actually create the closest of TRUE deep relationships that you may have never experienced otherwise! 👯‍♀️

And this doesn’t mean cutting people out of your life by the way… it just means categorizing and compartmentalizing those in your life so you don’t have unspoken expectations of the ones not in your inner circle of LOVE! 💖⭕️
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This is why I’m an EMPOWERMENT Health Coach…

I have a passion for people speaking their truth and LOVE working with clients to support them and empower them in being their authentic self!

If you’ve been holding back your TRUE SELF, then consider contacting me and learning about 𝗦𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗘𝗺𝗽𝗼𝘄𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 & 𝗛𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗠𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝘂𝗿𝗻𝗲𝘆!👇🏼

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